Get Any Girl Now

Lots of guys wonder how they can get girls to like them. This is actually far easier than most people realise and good looks, height or wealth are not very important. It all has to do with social skills. You may have heard the advice before that you should “Be confident” or “Just be yourself”. But if you break this down, what does it mean? More important how can you simply be confident?

This article will look at 3 simple steps you can take to get a girl to like you. Firstly it looks at your mindset and how to correct it. Next, it will show you the correct attitude to have when you are trying to get a girl to like you. Then the article shows you some specific things to say and do which will get any girl to like you.

How to get a girl to like u

Step 1 – Mindset

The advice “just be yourself” is flawed. It is what everyone does automatically anyway. And if this hasn’t worked before then why should it start working now. You don’t want to be yourself, you want to be your best self. Think what you feel you deserve in life and what kind of person you want others to see you as. This is your best self.

Make sure your personality is consistent with your values. This is what you like and what you are interested in. For example, do not pretend to like something if you have no interest in it. If you disagree or don’t like something, then say so. Girls will respect you much more for disagreeing.

Being confident is about a number of things. Firstly, understand that girls are not guys. They don’t behave or respond the same way as guys do. That being said, never put girls on a pedestal, even if they are very attractive. This means that you shouldn’t go out of your way for girls, unless they have earned it. So things like buying girls drinks, giving them rides in your car just so you can spend time together is bad. Girls know whats going on, even if it is subconscious and they will lose respect for you.

Finally, the more girls you talk to, the easier you will find it to start getting them to like you. Even if there is only one girl that you like, you are far more likely to actually get her if you spent lots of time meeting and talking to other girls too.

Step 2 – Attitude during conversation

There are a number of things that you can change about your attitude when talking to girls that will transform your interactions. Movies, tv and books often say that you should compliment a girl and show you are interested. This is good advice, so long as you balance it out. Think if it like a push-pull scenario. When you show interest you are pushing and when you stop or when you show dis-interest you are pulling away. If you do this right, when you start to show dis-interest, girls will become very attracted to you – they want what they can’t have. Think of this as playing hard to get for guys.

To show disinterest, tease her in a fun way. Do not insult her or her looks, but insult stereotypes about her. If she is blonde and says something silly, you can tease blondes (but not specifically her). This will have amazing results. Another great disinterest technique is to change your body language. Look away and stand as if you will walk away at any moment. Periodically look around as if you are looking for someone. Also, don’t be afraid to cut a conversation topic and start talking about something else completely.

You don’t want to be the nice guy that agrees with everything she says all the time, but at the same time you don’t want to be the arrogant guy that is a complete jerk. There is a health middle ground. Finally, do not act as if you are seeking and outcome (IE her to like you). Your attitude should be: if it happens, cool, if not, I’m not bothered.

Step 3 – Actions to take as soon as possible

There are three great things you can do to get a girl to like you. One of the most potent technique that has a near 100% success rate is acquiring something called pre-selection. This is when a girl sees you with other girls. She hears other girls talking about you. This creates a buzz about you and she will respond to this very quickly and very strongly. All you need to do, is talk to lots of girls and this will happen naturally. Another good way is having lots of girls talking to you on your social networking profiles.

When you are talking to a girl, most guys are afraid or don’t know how to escalate things. The best way to do this is physically. Start to touch her when you are expressing yourself in a conversation. For example, if you are telling a story and you are using the word “you”, this is a perfect opportunity to touch her on her arm. It is expressive but deliberate. You will never encounter any resistance to this. From here, you need to take things further. Grab her wrist gently and pull her in so you can talk to her in her ear (if the music is loud for example). Girls love when guys touch them. It makes progressing onto the kiss a much smaller and easier step.

The final action I want to talk about in this article is called role play. This is when you create an imaginary situation that you and the girl are both part of. This allows you to have many fun and interesting experiences. A good example would be asking a girl where she would most like to go on vacation. Let’s say she says Hawaii. You can talk about how you would spend the day surfing if you went to Hawaii, then find some firewood and make your own fire on the beach with cocktails at sunset. Be as specific as possible.

Other good roleplays include the perfect day, what you would do if you won the lottery and what you would do if it was your last day on earth. Girls love playing out these kind of scenarios and will be eager to participate in them.

Next steps
So now you have a basic understanding of the sort of things you can do to get girls to like you. The best way to be successful is to talk to lots of girls and try this stuff out. The best advice I can give you is to read my article on how to get any girl. This will explain how to go about starting conversations with girls and getting them to like you.